MARIAGE

Julia n'umugore w'imyaka 36, abana n'umugabo witwa Donas. Umuryango wabo ubayeho neza mu buryo bw'amikoro. Julia yicaye aratwite yicaye hanze mu gikari cy'inzu, afite agenda ye akunda kwandikamo ubuzima bwe bwa buri munsi.. . Ubu arimo kwandika yibaza ngo"" Ese Mariage n'ukwambara impeta n'ikanzu? Cyangwa igikumwe utera kuri mategeko agusezeranya n'uwo kunda? Arakomeza arandika ati" Ese iriya ndahiro turahira tumanitse ikaboko niyo mariage?? Cyangwa kuriya dutamikana muri reception dushagawe n'imiryango n'abantu nibyo bita mariage ? Arakomeza yandika y'ibaza ngo mubyukuri mariage niki? . Hashize akanya gato arekeraho kwandika muri we akomeza kwibaza byinshi no gutekereza byinshi Nyuma aba akomeje kwandika ati" Mariage ya mbere yose 90% aba ari ikinyoma. Kubera ko benshi dukora mariage ishingiye kumarangamutima n'ibindi byifuzo runaka. Abenshi bashingira ko bageze igihe mu myaka yo gushyingirwa, abandi bakora mariage kubwo ubuzima bifuza, abandi mu kigare cyo kurebera kubandi. Abandi ibaho kubwo icyabahiro. Ariko nkakomeza kwibaza ubundi mariage yanyayo n'iyihe? . Arakomeza ati" nanjye nakoze Mariage ariko kugeza n'ubu sinigeze mbona igisonaro cyayo. Mana nkeneye gusobanukirwa. . Amaze kwandika afunga agatabo ke cyangwa se Agenda maze arahaguruka. Afite inda ikuze igiye kugera amezi 8. . Amaze guhaguruka aza mu nzu . . Amasaha nayo amaze gukura burimo kwira. Aza mu cyumba cye. Ni icyumba kinini cyane bihagije pe ! Areba hirya kuruhande abona berison yuzuye ibikoresho by'umwana n'utwenda twose yateguye nk'umubyeyi mugihe cya vuba witegura kwibaruka. . Uko abireba maze aza hafi yabyo agenda abireba byoseeee abyitegereza cyane, nyuma y'akanya aba afashwe n'ikiniga ararira azenga amarira menshi kumaso ariko ntiyarira asakuza. Bishoboke ko agize amaranganutima menshi. . Nyuma y'akanya muri we haza isengesho ati" Uwiteka mana muremyi wanjye kuri iyi nshuro ndagusabya uzanfungurire ikiganza cyawe mbone ikiganza cyawe. . Kurundi ruhande uko araho mu cyumba hari umukecuru ukuze winjiye mu nzu ye. Ni umukecuru w'umusirimu usa neza cyane. Arinjira maze areba aho mu nzu maze ahamagara Julia mu izina. . Julia aho ari mu cyumba aramwumva asa n'uwikanzemo maze aramwitaba. Uwo mukecuru ajya kwicara mu ntebe ategereza ko Julia aza kumureba. . Uwo mwanya Julia aba aje muri Saro aramureba aza imbere ye amuha ikiganza amusuhuza. Umukecuru arakireba gusa yanga kumusuhuza. Julia ati" Mabukwe ko wanze kunsuhuza n'ikihe kibazo? Humura ntabwo ibiganza byanjye byanduye. Nyirabukwe ati" Singombwa ariko ko duhuza ibiganza. Julia arabyumva ati" oooh ubwo ntakibazo Nyirabukwe ati" ariko Uba wumva wifata nk'umukazana wanjye !! Julia ati" njye ndabyemera ni wowe utabyemera. Nyirabukwe amureba nabi maze aramuseka ati" usenge noneho inzozi urota zizabe impamo da! Julia ati" nubwo utanyemera rimwe uzanyemera. Nyirabukwe ati" ariko wumva arinjye mubi ! Mubyukuri wowe iyo urebye ubona nahera kuki nkwita umukazana wanjye. Njye nibaza ubundi Umuhungu wanjye yagutoraguye he ? . Julia ayo magambo aramubabaza ariko arihangana araceceka. Nyirabukwe amwitegereza kunda atwite. Nyirabukwe ati" Cyakora da reka twizere kuri iyi nshuro ko uzaba uw'umumaro. Julia areba kunda ye ati" Nyizera ubu bizagenda neza Kandi uzanyemera. Nyirabukwe ati" none ubundi ni gute uba ugandaje mu nzu y'umuhungu wanjye irangaye gutya ahantu hose? Uba ushaka ko biba ibyo umuhungu wanjye yavunikiye? Julia ati" Marko arihanze ariko ! Nyirabukwe ati" ari hanze he ? Ubuse umuhamagaye yavuga ko azi uko nageze hano ? . Julia ati" narinamutumye buriya ntabwo aragaruka. Nyirabukwe amureba ati" urangije nawe wibera mu nzu ibindi ntabwo bikureba. Ariko buriya ubona umaze iki? . Tuze kurundi ruhande, kuri Dalena mushiki wa Donas ari mu modoka arikumwe n'undi musore barimo gusomana bitana ba cher. Bari hafi aho y'igipangu. Derike ati" ariko cher twatahanye ubundi ugiye kujya kwa Musaza ...